She might send you dirty text messages, pictures and insist on talking for most of the day, but when it comes to actually meeting for a date or coming over she has an excuse every single time. Those are terms that are essentially derogatory and are meant more as insults than anything else. To a woman, the knowledge that she is wanted by a guy is just as satisfying as sex is for a man. He is currently working on a novel about internet dating and spends his free time practicing aerial photography, socializing and, when possible, sleeping. Most couples get very used to each other and how their partner will act and respond, day in and day out. Those are terms that are essentially derogatory and are meant more as insults than anything else.